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Failure turned Success

I’m 37 days away from the wedding and it seems like everything that “can” go wrong, IS!!

In the past week we had to “let go” of our current pastor and find someone else, the hotel that we are using to block rooms is not being cooperative and has changed the pricing on me (dramatically), my DIY bouquets for the bridal party were a complete failure and I failed to make the final payment to our photographer by the due date because I have somehow LOST our contract and didn’t know it was due!

I’m emotionally drained. I have never wanted to give up on something so badly as I do this wedding! Why didn’t we go to the courthouse or elope?

But, I can see light at the end of the tunnel….. Our new officiant is so totally cool. She understands our “vision” and hasn’t tried to push us to do something we are uncomfortable with. Not to mention that she has such a great personality. She is funny and a bit of a wise-ass just like my fiance! What a perfect fit!

Yes, the hotel has raised their prices but they are at least working with me on other areas. Originally, as most hotels do, I had to block rooms and whatever rooms were not used I was responsible for payment. They are now letting me block rooms and whatever rooms are not booked they will just open back up to the public a couple weeks before the wedding and I will not be responsible for the cost. The downside is still the fact that I have to make sure my guests book their rooms in the next couple weeks as the blocked rooms are only good up until a certain date.

After giving up on the idea that I would make all the bouquets, I finally broke down and went to a florist. I’m in L-O-V-E with the bridesmaid bouquets that we picked out.

Inspiration picture:

Bridesmaid’s

 And here is the inspiration picture for my bouquet:

Bride

 And lastly, I spoke to our photographer yesterday and explained how sorry I was about missing the payment and she was totally cool. A check went in the mail and all is right with the world again!

Now if only I could make some progress on our rehearsal dinner…….

DIY Flower Trial

I’m sure you all remember my decision to use silk carnations as my flowers for the wedding and reception. Well my inspiration picture (see below) has been taunting me for weeks now.

I am so in love with the idea of using these as some of my centerpeices, so I finally decided it was time for a “trial run”. I went to Michaels’s Craft store and bought all my supplies and headed home to figure out this glue gun thingy.

I am not a crafty person (I leave all of that up to my sister) so I wasn’t sure how this project was going to end, but I was praying nothing too bad would happen. If I managed to stay away from the emergency room I knew I would be on the right track. I seriously kept imagining burning myself (or Don) with this glue gun. They put so many warnings on the package and I was nearly scared half to death.

After 30 minutes of cutting stems (1/2 of that time Don had to take over because I broke the wire cutting scissors). I told you I wasn’t “crafty”. It took about 30 minutes for me to meticulously put all the carnations on…….someone with OCD should NEVER attempt these types of projects……I could have been there all day working on this thing. It was finally Don who said “Enough is Enough”……..Here is the finished project

It didn’t take long for me to realize that the 6″ ball that I used was way too big for most of the stands I had purchased. I ran back to Michaels and bought some 5″ and 4″ spheres and those seem to be the perfect size. I also was able to purchase the white milk glass vases that I’ve been searching for this weekend. I hit the jackpot at Salvation Army and Goodwill. I still need more, but I will keep searching.

Here is a picture of the 5″ ball next to the 6″ ball. In addition to the size difference you may also notice that the 5″ isn’t as “tight” looking. We decided to space the flowers out a bit more so we didn’t have to use as many (cost savings).

After making a few trials we finally started to get the hang of this. I think we did about 6 of these and by the last one, we had it down to a science. I knew it would only be a mattered of time before we perfected it. Our only problem now is that I hope we can remember all of our “tricks of the trade” by the time it comes around to making the rest.

We also messed around with some mock set-ups of our reception tables. My pictures are all horrible because I think I was too exhausted by this time, but you get the jist of what we are doing. Black tablecloths, damask table runners, white china with red napkins, and red, black, white accents as centerpieces.
And please don’t anyone point out the fact that one of the votives is not in the right spot. Little Miss OCD almost died when I pulled up this photo this morning…. And also please note that the only reason there are so many red carnations on the table is because we ran out of white ones. We were simply trying to get and “idea” of what we were doing. And lastly, don’t mind the couch in the background….it was the only open floor space at the time.

You will notice in the pic above that all of the red carnation balls will be in the white milk glass vases and all the white centerpeices will be in clear china…..it looks so awesome in real life!! I’m getting more and more excited every day!

Now, I’m on a mission to find more white milk glass……..keep your eyes peeled for me :)

Flowers, Dress, Veil….Oh My!

Before I begin this post, I would like to apologize…I do not have the source to many of the pictures below. They are from my wedding file I started long before this blog. If anyone knows the source please let me know and I will add

Flowers
Last night I was lucky enough to spend a few hours with my FMIL and we had such a good time. We did nothing but talk wedding for about 3 hours. She gave me some much needed input on my flowers so I was much appreciative. I’ve decided I’m going to try and do some test runs involving silk carnations and see if I can come up with anything that resembles this…..

Dress
I also got a chance to show her some of the dresses that I am drooling over these days. I was a little worried she may not like my choices, given that I’m going rather casual due to our change in venue. But to my surprise, she was drooling almost as much as me. This dress by Alfred Angelo is still my top contender and my FMIL agrees..

We also took some time to look for a Mother of Groom dress for her and she was having a blast. She found 2 great contenders from Nordstrom’s Dress Shop.

J Kara Beaded Dress with Bolero Jacket in Navy/Silver

JS Collections Bead Lace Chiffon Gown in Black/Nude

Veil

I’ve been in love with this veil ever since I saw it on The Perfect Palette.

And much to my surprise my FMIL loved it too. She thinks it will look fab on me…and I agree!

Flowers – DIY

Okay, so the further I get into wedding planning process, the more things I think we should try to DIY…..I’m not having floral centerpieces, really not many flowers at all except for the bouquets. Knowing that I’m not very artsy or creative……do you think I could do this?

Real Simple Weddings has some pretty cool DIY bouquets….love the carnations (weird, I know)

Big Wedding, Tiny Budget had some great advice on DIY Flowers and some great tutorial videos

I guess one of the cool things about the year and a half left of our engagement is that we have lots of time to test things out. Any volunteers would be great!!! :)

Flowers – DIY

Okay, so the further I get into wedding planning process, the more things I think we should try to DIY…..I’m not having floral centerpieces, really not many flowers at all except for the bouquets. Knowing that I’m not very artsy or creative……do you think I could do this?

Real Simple Weddings has some pretty cool DIY bouquets….love the carnations (weird, I know)

Big Wedding, Tiny Budget had some great advice on DIY Flowers and some great tutorial videos

I guess one of the cool things about the year and a half left of our engagement is that we have lots of time to test things out. Any volunteers would be great!!! :)

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